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Convincing Your Ex Versus Triggering Feelings

When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would   just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only natural you would try to convince him that he should give the relationship another shot. After all, convincing him  feels  like the right thing to do. Why would you  not  try to reason with him? Why wouldn’t you try to show him he’s making a mistake by pulling away? Yet this is one of those times in life when our instincts lead us awry. Because convincing your ex never works. Fortunately, I know something that does: Triggering feelings. (By the way, If you’d like laser-targeted advice about getting your ex to talk to you again, check out my  Relationship Rewrite Method presentation ). Here’s the thing, triggering feelings will always trump logical argument. Why? Because emotions run the show. We h