The Woman by his side

Have you ever felt attracted to a guy without knowing why? Maybe you’ve even had feelings for someone you’d rather not be attracted to. Why does this happen? How can you fall in love even though your conscious mind resists it? Experiences like these hint at the hidden world driving our feelings of romantic attraction. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions. Emotional reactions we don’t consciously control. The truth is, falling in love is not something we choose to do. It’s more like getting thirsty. You don’t choose to get thirsty. You just notice it. And the stronger your thirst becomes, the harder it gets to ignore. What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” all men experience? A kind of thirst that’s impossible for him to quench on his own. Would you like to know what he’s so thirsty for? To skip straight to the answer,  check out this video that reveals how you can trigger his thirst for something he needs and craves. Plus, I’ll show you

How much time do you spend trying to be the kind of woman you think men want? If you’re like most women, it’s a LOT. You spend all this time making yourself look sexy and attractive. All this time presenting yourself as fun, interesting, worldly, and not needy in the slightest. You spend all this time showing him just how good you’d be for him… How amazing his future would be if he chose you as the woman by his side… And it doesn’t work. It never works. WHY? Why do you work so hard… And the guy in your life just takes you for granted, if he even notices you at all? It’s probably because he’s immature, right? He can’t recognize a good thing until it’s gone. Or maybe…  It’s because you’ve been doing all the work for him. If He Doesn’t Work for Your Relationship, He Won’t Value It Fact: What men value most are those things they have to work hard to get. Hand a man a college diploma, and he won’t value it as much as if he’d had to put in years of study and effort to earn it.

In recent days I've been thinking a lot about our personal relationships, especially the romantic ones, the ones we have with our boyfriends and husbands. In the how over the years the passion and intensity decreases without us doing anything about it. You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend? The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only: His girlfriend. You’re so glad she found him, but honestly? You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that. It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more… How he treats you.  He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to. You know he doesn’t wake